Parents Can’t Call the Professor. So Who Helps Now?
- Rose Velez-Miggins, LGMFT, M.Ed., RT.

- 6 days ago
- 3 min read
For years, you have been the one keeping track of everything.
You emailed the teacher. Followed up with the counselor. Sat through the meetings. Kept track of accommodations. Asked the questions your child did not know to ask. Noticed when something was falling apart before anyone else did.
Then they go to college.

Suddenly, the expectation is that your student will handle much of this on their own.
And Mom or Dad calling or emailing the professor? That usually is not the answer.
But neither is expecting a young adult to magically know how to navigate an entirely new system without support.
College Changes the Rules
In high school, support often surrounds a student. Teachers, parents, counselors, case managers, and other professionals may all play a role in keeping things moving.
College is different.
Students are expected to communicate with professors, navigate disability services, understand their accommodations, manage deadlines, schedule appointments, respond to emails, solve problems, and ask for help when they need it.

Sometimes even the process of getting accommodations feels like it needs accommodations.
Knowing what you need is one skill. Knowing who to contact, what to say, when to follow up, and what to do when the first answer does not solve the problem is another.
So Who Helps Now?
That is one of the reasons we created the Parade Wellness Young Adult + College Support Program.
We provide individualized support for students who may benefit from having someone in their corner as they navigate college and young adulthood.
Depending on the student, that might include:
Accommodations navigation
Advocacy and self-advocacy
Executive functioning support
Organization and planning
Communication with professors and campus offices
Preparing for difficult conversations
Problem-solving and decision-making
Emotional wellness
Social connection and relationships
Independent living skills
Building sustainable routines
Connecting with campus and community resources
This is not about doing college for a student.
It is about helping them learn how to do it themselves, with the right amount of support along the way.
Student-Led. Family-Supported. Campus-Aware.
Our approach is student-led, family-supported, and campus-aware.
We help students build independence without treating independence as something they have to do completely alone.
When appropriate and authorized by the student, families can remain part of the support system without having to be the person fielding every email, tracking every deadline, or stepping in every time something goes wrong.
We also help students connect with and navigate the resources already available through their college. Our role is not to replace disability services, academic advising, counseling centers, or other campus programs. It is to help students make those systems work for them.
You Get to Go Back to Being Parents
For many parents, that may be one of the biggest benefits.
You have spent years advocating, coordinating, reminding, following up, and worrying.
College should also give you space to hear about the roommate stories. The professor they love. The club they joined. The new friends. The class that surprised them. The first time they solved a problem without calling home.
Leave some of the advocacy to us, so you can focus less on managing the details and more on staying connected to your student through all the wonderful things college brings.
Don’t Wait for the Crisis
Support does not have to begin after missed assignments pile up, accommodations fall through, emails go unanswered, or a student calls home overwhelmed.
The beginning of the semester is an opportunity to put systems in place before they are urgently needed.
Whether your student is starting college for the first time, returning for another semester, transferring, living independently, or simply needs more support navigating young adulthood, we can build a plan around their individual needs.
Start ready. Stay ready.
Want to get support in place now? Book a complimentary Connection Call with Parade Wellness.
Flexible payment options are available, and a limited number of need-based scholarships are offered to qualifying families. Application required.


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